Recognising and Supporting Speech and Language Delays in Children

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Recognising and Supporting Speech and Language Delays in Children

Speech and language development is a crucial part of a child's overall growth, influencing their ability to communicate, learn, and interact with the world. While every child develops at their own pace, some may experience delays that require early support. Understanding the signs of speech and language delays, knowing how to support late talkers at home, and recognising the importance of early intervention can make a significant difference in a child's communication skills and confidence.

Signs of Speech and Language Delays in Children

As a parent or caregiver, it's important to be aware of the typical milestones for speech and language development. While some variation is normal, the following signs may indicate a delay:

  • By 12 months: Limited or no babbling, lack of gestures (pointing, waving), or not responding to their name.

  • By 18 months: Understands up to 50 words and some short phrases, follows simple instructions (e.g., 'throw the ball'), and points to familiar objects when named. Says 6 to 20 single words and uses objects in pretend play.

  • By 2 years: Follows simple two-part instructions, responds to 'what' and 'where' questions, and points to body parts when named. Says more than 50 words, puts two words together (e.g., 'bye teddy'), and uses tone to ask questions.

  • By 3 years: Follows more complex two-part instructions, understands 'same' and 'different', and sorts items into groups. Says four to five words in a sentence, asks questions using 'what', 'where', and 'who', and talks about past events.

  • By 4 years: Answers most questions about daily tasks, understands most 'wh' questions, and shows awareness that some words start or end with the same sounds. Uses longer sentences, describes recent events, and asks lots of questions.

  • By 5 years: Follows three-part instructions, understands time-related words (e.g., 'before', 'after'), and recognises some letters, sounds, and numbers. Uses well-formed sentences, takes turns in longer conversations, and tells simple stories with a beginning, middle, and end.

If your child exhibits any of these signs, consulting a speech pathologist can help determine if intervention is needed.

Speech Sound Development in Children

Preschool children start to use much longer sentences, yet their speech should still be understood by unfamiliar people (outside of the family) about 75% of the time. By 5 years of age, anyone (including unfamiliar listeners) should be able to understand the child's speech in conversation 95-100% of the time. Key milestones include:

  • By 2 years: Children can say a range of speech sounds, including p, b, m, t, d, n, h, and w. At this age, about half of their speech should be understood by familiar listeners.

  • By 3 years: Children can say additional sounds such as k, g, f, s, and ng. Most of their speech should be understood by family and friends.

  • By 4 years: Most children can say most sounds correctly, including m, n, h, w, p, b, t, d, k, g, ng, f, y, s, z, ch, j, sh, and l. They can use many consonant clusters, which are combinations of two or more sounds (e.g., tw, sp, gl). Children may use clusters at the start (e.g., blue) or end of words (e.g., hand). Also, children will say most vowel sounds in words correctly (e.g., ay, oh, ee).

  • By 5 years: A child should be able to say all the sounds well and be starting to recognise that spoken sounds can be matched to written letters. They can hear and make rhyming words, hear and count syllables/beats in words, and make sentences with words that start with the same sound (e.g., big brown bear). Children can tell you what the first sound is in their name and what the letter is called and can break up the sounds in a small word (e.g., "c-a-t").

It's important to note that some sounds, such as "r," "v," and "th," may still be challenging for children at this age and continue to develop as they grow.

How to Support Late Talkers at Home

If your child is a late talker, there are several ways you can encourage their language development at home:

  • Model Language: Speak to your child frequently, describing what you're doing, naming objects, and expanding on their attempts to communicate.

  • Encourage Imitation: Use gestures, facial expressions, and simple words to help your child imitate sounds and actions.

  • Read Together: Reading books daily exposes children to new vocabulary, sentence structures, and storytelling.

  • Sing Songs and Nursery Rhymes: Music and rhythm can enhance language learning and make communication fun.

  • Pause and Wait: Give your child time to respond during conversations instead of anticipating their needs.

  • Expand on Their Words: If your child says "dog," expand it by saying, "Yes, that's a big, brown dog."

  • Reduce Screen Time: Engaging in face-to-face interactions is more beneficial than passive listening to screens.

The Importance of Early Intervention

Early intervention is key to improving speech and language outcomes for children with delays. Research shows that children who receive speech therapy at a young age often make greater progress compared to those who wait. Early support can:

  • Improve Communication Skills: Helping children express their needs, thoughts, and emotions effectively.
  • Boost Social Development: Enhancing interactions with peers and family members.
  • Support Academic Success: Strengthening pre-literacy and language skills necessary for school.
  • Reduce Frustration: Giving children the tools to communicate reduces behavioural challenges linked to frustration.

If you suspect your child may have a speech or language delay, don't wait to seek support. A speech pathologist can assess their needs and provide tailored strategies to help them thrive.

Final Thoughts

Recognising speech and language delays early and providing the right support can set your child on a path to successful communication. By engaging in language-rich activities at home and seeking professional guidance when needed, you can help your child develop strong communication skills that will benefit them for life. If you have concerns about your child's speech or language development, contact us to schedule an assessment.